IB Psychology SL Topic 3 — Interpersonal Relationships Paper 1 & 2 Biological approach ~9 min read

Dopamine and Romantic Attraction

Cannot eat. Cannot sleep. Checking your phone every four minutes. New love looks a lot like a chemical problem, and when researchers put people in a brain scanner they found the same regions lighting up that light up for drugs.

📚 What you need to know

What dopamine actually does

Neurons do not touch. There is a tiny gap between them, and a message gets across it by chemical rather than electrical means. The sending neuron releases a neurotransmitter into that gap, and receptors on the receiving neuron pick it up.

How a dopamine signal crosses the gap Neurons never touch, so the message has to be chemicalPresynaptic neuron Postsynaptic neuron Dopamine is stored and released here Receptors pick the signal upSynaptic cleftDopamine carries the signal from one neuron to the next Fisher argued that early romantic love involves extra dopamine activity
Neurotransmitters allow communication inside the brain and between the brain and the rest of the body.

Dopamine has several jobs. It is central to movement and motor control, which is why a shortage of it is linked to Parkinson’s disease. Irregular levels have been associated with schizophrenia, which is the basis of the dopamine hypothesis. But the function that matters here is reward and motivation — dopamine is tied to pleasure, reinforcement and euphoria, and it pushes behaviour along by making things feel worth repeating.

Love that looks like addiction

Dopamine is strongly associated with addiction. The rush that comes with a drug such as cocaine — euphoria, excitement, feeling high — runs through the same reward circuits. Fisher noticed that people describing the early stages of romantic love use almost identical words.

Why Fisher compared love to addiction Two very different causes, one very similar description Effects of a drug Euphoria and a rush Excitement and thrills Craving the next hit Withdrawal when absent Obsessive focusEarly romantic love Euphoria and a rush Cannot eat or sleep Craving their presence Feeling low when apart Obsessing about themThe overlap is why people say early love feels like an addiction Both are linked to dopamine activity in the brain reward system
People in the early stage also report restlessness, daydreaming about the person, and seeing colours as more vivid.
It does not last, and that is normal. These feelings belong to roughly the first six months. Once a couple get used to each other the relationship settles into something steadier. Losing the euphoria is not a sign the relationship is failing — it is the expected pattern.

Key study: Fisher et al. (2005)

Part of the studyWhat happened
AimTo investigate whether there is a link between dopamine-rich brain regions and the early stages of romantic love.
ParticipantsA self-selected sample of 17 students from New York State University — 10 female and 7 male, aged 18 to 26, mean age 20. All said they were in love. Time spent with their partner ranged from 1 to 17 months, with a mean of 7 months.
ProcedureEach participant lay in an fMRI scanner and was shown a photograph of their romantic partner. This was followed by a distraction task, and then by a neutral photograph of an acquaintance they had no emotional connection with.
ResultsWhen the partner’s photograph was shown, the most active areas were the right ventral tegmental area in the midbrain and the right caudate nucleus. Both regions are associated with dopamine production and with motivation and reward.
ConclusionPeople in the early stages of romantic love activate brain regions linked to dopamine release when their partner is present, even only as an image. In that sense people become ‘addicted to love’.
The distraction task is not filler. It clears the emotional after-effects of the first photograph so the neutral image starts from a clean baseline. Examiners like students who can say why a step exists.

Evaluating the research

What is strong about it

What is weaker about it

Link to concepts

EXAM PRACTICE

Discuss the role of one neurotransmitter in human relationships. [22]

Step 1: name it and give the function Dopamine, a monoamine, central to reward and motivation and produced in areas including the VTA and caudate nucleus. Step 2: state the claim Fisher: early romantic love involves excess dopamine activity, producing euphoria, craving and obsession — and it fades after roughly six months. Step 3: the study Fisher et al. (2005). 17 students in love, fMRI, partner photo then distraction task then neutral photo. Step 4: the result Greatest activity in the right VTA and right caudate nucleus, both dopamine-rich reward areas. Step 5: evaluate on two levels Study: strong control comparison, but small self-selected young sample and alternative explanations such as nerves. Theory: biological reductionism ignores the cognitive and sociocultural sides of love. Function + claim + study + result + two-level evaluation Reductionism is the strongest criticism available here. Build a whole paragraph on it.

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