IB Psychology HL Topic 2 — Development of the Self Paper 1 & 2 Core theory ~11 min read

Bowlby and the Roots of Attachment

A human baby is born unable to feed itself, move itself or protect itself. Bowlby’s answer to that problem is the whole theory: babies come with a built-in system for getting an adult to stay close and care for them. Attachment is not affection. It is survival equipment.

📘 What you need to know

Monotropy: one bond above the rest

Bowlby did not claim a baby loves only one person. He claimed the attachments are not equal — one relationship, the primary attachment figure, sits above the others and does most of the developmental work. That figure is usually the mother, but it can be a father, a grandparent, or anyone else who is consistently there.

Monotropy: one bond does the heavy lifting other bonds exist, but they are not the same strength CHILD primary carer strongest bond father grandparent sibling More time with the primary carer means better quality attachment. Bowlby ranked the bonds. His critics say real children do not.
The thick line is the claim being tested. Later research suggests children form several real attachments from around 10–11 months, which is where monotropy comes under pressure.
The two principles of monotropy Law of continuity: the more constant and predictable the care, the better the quality of attachment.
Law of accumulated separation: every separation from the primary attachment figure has an effect, and they add up.
The word “accumulated” is doing real work in that second law. Bowlby is not saying one afternoon apart damages a child. He is saying the separations add together, like a bill that keeps running.

Social releasers and the critical period

A baby cannot ask for care, so evolution gave it something better: behaviours that make adults want to give care anyway. Bowlby called these social releasers.

The system runs both ways: the more responsive the caregiver, the stronger the attachment becomes. And Bowlby argued there is a critical period, roughly three to six months, when this must happen. If attachment is not formed in that window, forming attachments later is much harder.

The internal working model

The first relationship becomes a template. A child who receives loving, secure care from a consistent and safe caregiver grows up expecting that from relationships. A child whose primary relationship is negative tends to expect poor treatment later — and may treat others that way too.

Why the model matters for essays. The internal working model is the mechanism that turns an early experience into a lifelong pattern. Without it, Bowlby’s theory only explains babies. With it, it explains adults.

Key study: Ainsworth (1970), the Strange Situation

🧩 The study in four steps

  1. Aim — to investigate attachment style in infants using the Strange Situation, drawing on Bowlby’s theory.
  2. Participants — 56 white, middle-class infants from the USA, aged 49–51 weeks.
  3. Procedure — a 20-minute controlled observation in an unfamiliar room with interesting toys. The mother and a stranger enter and leave in a set sequence: the stranger arrives and approaches the baby, the mother leaves and returns, the baby is left alone, the stranger returns, and finally the mother returns and picks the baby up. Observers recorded exploration, distress on separation, response to the stranger and behaviour on reunion.
  4. Conclusion — attachment can be measured through observation. Most children are securely attached, but insecure patterns are linked to long-term effects.
The three attachment types most infants in this sample were securely attached 10-15% about 70% 10-15% Type A Type B Type C insecure-avoidant secure insecure-resistant Secure is the majority, but the minority patterns matter most. Remember the sample: 56 white, middle-class American infants.
Learn the two insecure types as a pair of opposites: Type A does not seem to care that mum left, Type C cares so much it cannot be soothed when she comes back.
TypeIn the roomWhen mum leaves and returnsLater relationships
Type A: insecure-avoidantLittle interest in mother, unbothered by the strangerLittle distress at separation, little response at reunionDetached, low intimacy, low empathy
Type B: secureUses mother as a secure base to explore, avoids the strangerDistressed when she leaves, comforted by her returnTrust, openness, autonomy, healthy intimacy
Type C: insecure-resistantClingy, distressed even while mother is presentExtreme distress, then not easily comforted; mixed anger and anxietyInsecure, jealous, needy, emotionally volatile

Evaluating Bowlby’s theory

Strengths

Limitations

Link to concepts

Exam practice

WORKED EXAMPLE

Outline one theory of attachment. [3 marks]

1. The core claim Bowlby argued attachment is innate and evolved, because staying close to a caregiver keeps a helpless infant alive. 2. A key feature Monotropy: one primary attachment figure matters more than the rest. 3. The long-term mechanism That relationship forms an internal working model, a template for later relationships. Claim + feature + mechanism Do not spend the whole answer listing social releasers. They are a detail, not the theory.
WORKED EXAMPLE

Discuss ethical considerations in research on attachment. [ERQ paragraph]

Issue The Strange Situation deliberately causes mild distress by separating a baby from its mother. Why it is difficult That distress is required for the measure to be valid — take it away and there is nothing to observe. Second issue An infant cannot understand or exercise the right to withdraw, so consent sits entirely with the parent. Judgement The design is defensible only because the distress is brief and controlled, but it shows validity and ethics can pull against each other. Issue, tension, second issue, judgement “It was unethical” is not an argument. Show the trade-off.

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Up next: What Happens When Attachment Is Missing — Bowlby’s theory predicts consequences when the bond is broken, and he tested that prediction on 44 young thieves.

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